Dead Serious #004
Dead Serious #004 (MP3 – 13.1MB – 37min)
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Dead Serious…..”Everybody Hurts, …….sometimes”
This week’s episode of Dead Serious looks how a significant death can impact on our lives. How do we feel when we know someone we love is not going to ‘get better’. How do we talk about an imminent death in our families? Is there a pattern in the experiences of different families?
I interview fellow TPN Host Ian Dixon, who generously discusses his personal experiences with the illness and death of his mother and how his family responded, where he found support and how he made personal ‘meaning’ of his experience.
This episode also poses the questions:
- Is there one person in the family who is forced to ‘take control’?
- How do families support each other?
- What happens when dying people have little social support?
- How do work colleagues and employers respond when there is a bereavement in their workplace?
This is an episode that poses a number of questions we need to consider. Are we compassionate people? Do we show support to dying, grieving and sad people in our communities and if we don’t know how to, what can we do to educate ourselves?





July 6th, 2005 at 4:29 pm
great show Molly & Ian! Very touching to hear someone talk publically about the grieving process. I can relate a lot. My dad died a couple of years ago, aged 53, within 90 days of being diagnosed with cancer. He had just split up from my mum and he and I had never been close. So although I saw him a month before he died, and we had a chance to make our peace, I couldn’t bring myself to go to his funeral. Something I now regret. Years of therapy later…
July 9th, 2005 at 12:08 am
I have just published a book: HELPING GRIEVING PEOPLE—WHEN TEARS ARE NOT ENOUGH (ROUTLEDGE (2005) AND WOULD LIKE TO BE INTERVIEWED BY MOLLY. I appreciate what you are doing to advance the understqanding about grief and end-of-life concerns. My website contains excerpts and other information about the book. www.griefcareprovider.com.
I am a former staff associate of Elisabeth Kubler-Ross.
Thanks and keep up the great work.
Shep Jeffreys
Shep Jeffreys
July 9th, 2005 at 12:09 am
Shep Jeffreys jeffreys3@comcast.net
www.griefcareprovider.com
July 9th, 2005 at 6:52 pm
Thanks for your support Shep, it’s greatly appreciated!
Molly